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How California Courts Handle Allegations of Parental Alienation

In high-conflict custody cases, one accusation appears frequently: parental alienation. This occurs when one parent is accused of intentionally damaging or interfering with the child’s relationship with the other parent.

Allegations of alienation can significantly affect custody decisions, but courts approach them carefully and cautiously.

At the Law Office of Stuart E. Bruers, based in Torrance and serving clients throughout Los Angeles County, Orange County, the South Bay, and the San Gabriel Valley, we represent parents on both sides of these sensitive and complex claims.

What Is Parental Alienation?

Parental alienation typically refers to behaviors such as:

  • Speaking negatively about the other parent to the child
  • Interfering with scheduled visitation
  • Limiting communication between the child and the other parent
  • Encouraging the child to reject or fear the other parent
  • Sharing inappropriate adult details about the divorce

Courts are especially concerned when a parent’s conduct appears designed to undermine the child’s relationship with the other parent.

California family law strongly supports the principle of frequent and continuing contact with both parents, when safe and appropriate.

How Do Courts Evaluate These Claims?

Judges in Torrance, Long Beach, Pasadena, and throughout Los Angeles County do not rely on accusations alone. They look for credible evidence, such as:

  • Communication records
  • Witness testimony
  • Statements from therapists or evaluators
  • Patterns of missed visitation
  • Behavior documented over time

In some cases, the court may appoint a minor’s counsel or order a custody evaluation to better understand the family dynamics.

False Allegations vs. Real Concerns

It is important to distinguish between true alienation and legitimate protective behavior. If a parent restricts contact due to genuine safety concerns, that is not automatically alienation.

Courts carefully evaluate whether the child’s reluctance to see a parent is the result of manipulation or based on actual experiences.

Because these cases are fact-intensive, preparation and strategy matter.

Possible Court Responses

If a court determines that alienation is occurring, it may:

  • Modify the custody schedule
  • Order reunification therapy
  • Require parenting classes
  • Adjust decision-making authority
  • In severe cases, change primary custody

Judges prioritize the child’s emotional well-being and long-term stability.

Take the Next Step

If you are facing allegations of parental alienation—or believe the other parent is interfering with your relationship with your child—contact the Law Office of Stuart E. Bruers today. With more than 30 years of family law experience, we represent parents throughout Torrance, Redondo Beach, Long Beach, Beverly Hills, Pasadena, and surrounding Southern California communities.